Are you a wife or husband?

If so, I invite you to take this survey, PLEASE.

Wives, I need your responses, but I also need you to convince your husband to answer. 

Tell him that I’m offering a Wii Game System as a prize ONLY TO HUSBANDS.  Everybody is eligible, so get on board.  Also, if you both answer the survey, you may end up feeling as if you’ve had some free marriage counseling.  This is a great chance to talk about your marriage in a way that won’t end in a fight!

This survey is part of my research for a book about what happens to women and men after they become wives and husbands, and how marriages change over time.

Everybody who answers becomes eligible to win a prize:  a Wii Game System, an iPod Nano, and other great prizes. To find out more, click here.

Completing this survey will take you just 10 minutes or so, and you'll provide valuable information for my research. You might also gain some insight into your own life and your own marriage.

Your answers are anonymous and confidential — I won't use any names and I won't share your information with anyone else. Please expand on your answers in the “Explain” boxes, especially in the last few questions.

Thank you for your help.